Saturday, June 13, 2020

Void of Love


The Rev’d Stephen E. Stults
St. Paul’s Anglican Church
The First Sunday after Trinity
June 14, 2013


Let me pose a question: besides money, what is the most sought-after commodity in the world?  Is it not love? Do not men and women seek love in all its forms?  Not merely romantic love (eros) can be considered here. Do not people seek the other forms of love as well?  Do we not all want agape (love that seeks the welfare of the other person), and philios (love of fellowship), and caritas (Christian love of humankind; charity). Among people of good will, we can probably all agree that most humans need and seek love in one or all its forms.
Our Epistle for today is a wonderful treatment of love.  In it, John the beloved apostle uses the verbs “Beloved (agapetoi), let us love (agapomen) one another” (v. 7a).  These words, agapetoi and agapomen, are variants of the verb agape, which is the kind of love that demonstrates concern for the welfare of the other person.”[1]
Yet, how imperfectly do we seek it!  In the past several weeks, we have seen the pursuit of justice (agape and philios) over the mistreatment and subsequent death of a police prisoner. The massive protests stemming from this incident give testimony to that.  Then, we witnessed the complete repudiation of love by rioters and looters. We have seen the complete antithesis of the love sought after. Some with sinister agendas have completely invalidated the aims of the peaceful protesters. They have substituted hate for love, and violence for peace. It is sad and tragic so noble a cause can be perverted and twisted to such a degree.
Although we could spend the rest of the year seeking to understand the various forms of love, even imperfectly, let us focus on this: “He who doesn’t love doesn’t know God, for God is love” (v. 8 of our Epistle selection).  This verse states the other side of the coin––the obverse of verse 7,  which said: ”Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.”  
While the person who loves “is born of God and knows God,” the person who doesn’t love doesn’t know God and has no deep and abiding relationship with God.  Love, then, is the acid test of discipleship. This is true because “God is love.”  How can we claim to have a deep and abiding relationship with God if we fail to manifest this most important characteristic of God––agape love?”[2]
The fact is, we cannot. It is impossible to perfectly love God, while hating one’s brother. The two are mutually opposite. Consider this: (1 John 4:20) “If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?”  Yet, it could be said that we all accomplish this imperfectly as well. Somehow, most of us manage to have some love for God, while harboring ill will in some fashion towards our fellow man. We claim to love God, and we worship Him, yet we still judge, or criticize, or even hate others. In so doing, our walk with God is imperfect. Why? It is hindered by the limitations of our own human natures. Man is a curious mix of righteousness and blasphemy, of chastity and lust, and of restraint versus license.  He can exhibit the most elevated behavior, then suddenly return to the slime.
This being the case, how can one expect to achieve a high level of consistent godliness?  Is it even possible?  Given that no one, absolutely no one, is one hundred per cent consistent, it seems an impossibility. And so it is. It is impossible on our own power.  Absent the Spirit of God in our hearts, we will fail immensely more times, if we even try. Alternatively, given the spirit of grace and God’s love in our hearts, we will succeed more than we will fail.
Note this: we love God because He first loved us.  St. Thomas Aquinas called this “prevenient grace”, or the overwhelming source of love that draws man to God.  While Sigmund Freud may have termed man’s desire for God as need for a “Father figure”, it goes much deeper than that. Man’s nature, despite its fallen-ness, desires to have communion with God. Some theologians, such as St. Augustine of Hippo, have termed this the imago dei, or literally the image of God on our soul.  Even marred by sin, something in us calls out to God.
Something deep in Man impels him to his Creator, due to God’s desire for man to love Him, as He loves Man.
This is a mystery too profound for us.  Is it any wonder that many cannot accept it? How can there be Someone who only wants your love? How can there exist a Being that is only interested in your welfare and cares about you more than you care about yourself?  How is it even possible? 
It can only exist in the mystery and majesty that is God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Ghost.
Let it be summed up in this: (1 John 4:16) “And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.”
Beloved, let us know and believe that God is love.  Let us cherish this fact in our hearts, now and forever.
AMEN.




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